Women are sometimes baffled and puzzled as to why a man who seemed to be so much in love has suddenly cooled off and lost interest! There could be a thousand reasons as to why this could happen. Here are some of the most common reasons why your man has lost interest so quickly in you.
He finds you disappointing and wanting
The trouble is that in the beginning he did not really take the trouble to know you before falling for you, with the result that he did not actually love you but was just infatuated with you. Now that time has passed, he has found to his dismay that you are not "his" type of person and he is disappointed in you.
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He feels suffocated and trapped
If you have been the type of girlfriend that has been too demanding, nagging, possessive and jealous who has not let him out of your sight, it is no surprise that he is feeling suffocated and trapped in a relationship he does not want anymore. No wonder he has lost interest in you.
His feelings were shallow in the first place
If he has been dating you as a mere "fling" or just to pass the time, then his feelings were not strong enough to survive for more than a few weeks. He is bound to lose interest in you after a while and will prove his insincerity by being bored and disinterested around you. You would do well to forget him.
He is on the look out for something better
If your guy is the cheating type and is just playing the field, then you have no hope of latching on to him. He is probably already on the lookout for someone more exciting and "better" than you. He will leave you when he does find someone else.
He finds you too intense
Some times a man will get into a relationship without realizing that his partner may want something more serious and intense. If you have been the serious one in the relationship, he is bound to feel that you are not compatible, especially if he is fickle, less serious and reluctant to take on responsibilities of any kind.
He senses you want to get seriously hitched
Even though he really liked you and is still very attracted to you, it could be that he is not ready for any kind of commitment. If you have been showing him that you are waiting for him to propose to you or make a commitment to you, it will frighten him off and he will lose interest in you.
You have too much emotional baggage
Have you got into the relationship with a lot of past baggage - emotional and otherwise? If you have, you should ask yourself if you are asking too much of your new guy by expecting him to handle all the bitterness, anger and hurt you seem to harbor. If he finds that he cannot handle you and your past - he will lose interest and want to leave.
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